Wednesday, February 26, 2014

2/26/14 My thoughts on grief (part 2)



What do you see when looking at this picture? The easy answers would be snow, a person, lights & a fence. But I’d like you to change your perception for a moment and see it thru the eyes of grief. For a grieving person…this is how we often feel. Are you wondering what I mean by this statement? Allow me to explain.

Like everything in our lives there is a season, grief is a season; a period of time where those who are grieving feel like it is winter. A dark, cold time; where we feel as if we are alone on our travels.

But if you look closely at the picture you will see some other things that may have been overlooked. Yes it is dark and cold but you see there are other footprints, fencing and lights. All those things remind us that others have travelled this path before us. The footprints remind us that although we may feel as though we are the only ones who have experienced this pain- if we look around we will see that there are others who have walked it before us. Like little beacons, the lights only illuminate a small spot and encourage us to move forward towards the next one. There will be areas that are dim- but that is ok- these are the areas where one light is ending and another is beginning. The fence was put there to guide and protect us along the path and our travels. The last thing one may notice is how bundled up the person is against the cold. I would like to think that this is very much like God’s love; it does not immediately take away the winter but it does provide warmth, protection and act as a buffer against the harsh reality that is ours to experience.


You many have also noticed that this path is not perfectly straight but rather it twists and winds along. As I continue to travel along this path, if I could I would add some things. Perhaps I would add a bench to rest upon when we become weary, or a gate where someone could enter and walk alongside us. There are times when I look forward to the time when Spring will arrive and I can see our lives starting to show life again.

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